Kailley's Sayings: Friendship and Oneness (10/11/07)

Friendliness is next to godliness. Whenever you create a friendship, you create for yourself an opening into Universal consciousness. This is because each of you is a unique part of the whole, and, in unison, you amass a greater piece of the wholeness-which is what each of you has come here to experience, in the physical.

The curious nature of interpersonal relationships is that you are experiencing both duality and oneness at the same time. This creates a certain degree of confusion around who you are compared to that who appears in your life as the "other". These are all aspects of your own soul's adventure from the seemingly unknown to oneness.  Sometimes the other causes you to re-examine parts of yourself which you have over-identified with and which needs to be expelled from your energy bodies.

A friend appears in you life to greatly accelerate this process. The friend manifests into your current experience of this you-ness which is coming up for examination within the framework of either processing the inconsistencies in yourself or reintegrated those pieces which have been "outside" of your current understanding of yourself. Friendship, in the realm of duality, is about making connections which are intentional, loving and in divine order-hence the association with god-li-ness.

Let go of your judgment of how friends may come and go in your life; they may be here for a brief moment or for a lifetime. As your saying goes...for a season or a reason. Those who may appear to need your friendship may be the most important gift that this physical lifetime can bring you...and the most trying.  For, only a `loved-one' can bring you the heart-felt joy and sorrow, laughter and pain, which elevates your experience of the day-to-day commonalities to extraordinary experiences of your soul-path. All else pales in comparison.

Welcome, then, these friends, even those who appear to be enemies, all is as it has been designed to be...by you, for you. If it sometimes appears otherwise, look again. Consider that there is no misadventures in the soul's journey, the sum-total of which will lead you back to the source of which all things originate...and know that you are home